The G Center  by Lynda Stone

This Center also takes us down our path in life. Or rather it pulls to us all the people, places and things that we need to encounter so that we can have the experiences we are designed to have. The Magnetic Monopole is a magnet. Imagine that above us there are invisible streetcar cables running in all different directions like a grid. The G Center has a cable that is connected to this grid and as we move through life the G Center will pull to us the opportunities for the experiences that we need so that we move down our evolutionary path.

The G Center governs love, direction, and identity. It represents how we love and are loved and how we give and get direction in our lives. It represents our relationship with our Higher Self. It also represents our identity.

A person with an Undefined G usually feels that they do not know the direction they are headed in life. They are rarely sure that they are heading in the right direction and they are absorbed in finding their direction and the love that they think is missing. They can be very confused about love and try to hold onto love when it is time to let go. They can also be confused about their identity and try and ‘fix’ their identity to something or someone. All their (not-self) decisions in life revolve around trying to find love, direction and trying to discover who they are.

If you have an Undefined G you need to ask yourself, “Am I still looking for love?” “Am I still looking for my direction or way in the world?” “Am I still trying to define myself and figure out who I am?” You need to understand that this ‘looking’ is futile.

An Undefined G person is not here to ‘know’ who they are but to simply experience all the different possibilities of relationships, love, identity and allow the Universe to take them into a new direction at the appropriate moment in time.

When you have an Undefined G the Universe is in charge of when a new relationship comes into your life or when a new direction is presented to you. You are here to be free of being concerned about such things and to be unattached to the coming and going of these things in your life.

A person with an Undefined G needs to understand that the environment guides them. It literally presents guideposts for love and direction along the path in life.

For example, a person may show up in their lives and offer an opportunity for a new direction or a new relationship. The Undefined G needs to pay attention to these guideposts. They do not necessarily have to go in the new direction or get involved in the relationship offered. They do, however, need to pay attention. If they do go with the offer it is important to remember that they do not owe the guidepost (person) anything for initiating them onto a new path. The guidepost is simply an agent of the Universe showing up at the right moment in this person’s life to possibly send them into a new direction.

It is important to know that an Undefined G is not the one to initiate. They are to wait until the initiation takes place. They must be “shown” their new love or new direction. This can seem very uncomfortable in a society where we are taught to go after what we want. It can feel very uncomfortable to wait while one feels directionless. It can feel uncomfortable to not be in a relationship while the pressures from society, friends, and family tell us we “should” be in a relationship.

The person with the Undefined G needs to learn to love without attachment or expectation. They need to learn to drop the things and people in life that are not working for them so that a new direction or love can come. They need to learn to “mind their own business” with regard to a relationship. This means that they need to go about their own business and let others take care of themselves. This does not mean that they don’t care. You can lovingly allow others their own process. If you are asked to help, and it feels correct, then do so. It’s all about non-attachment to outcomes.

An Undefined G needs relationships that enrich and expand their lives. They cannot be in a relationship where they feel trapped. You need to ask yourself, “Do I have absolute freedom and expansion in this relationship?” “Does this relationship add to and enhance my life?” If an Undefined G feels trapped then they begin to look for the exit sign and they begin to ask themselves “how do I get out of this relationship”.

A Defined G’s identity is fixed in a specific way. It is limited to the attributes of their definition. This is a very different experience than that of an Undefined G. A Defined G can provide direction to an Undefined G and an Undefined G will reflect the identity and direction back to a Defined G. Being with an Undefined G is like looking in the mirror at yourself. The Undefined G reflects love, identity and direction back to those it encounters.

I personally have a completely Undefined G and when I first received this knowledge about the Undefined G I felt liberated! Before this I was very preoccupied with trying to find love and direction in my life. This search permeated everything that I did and the decisions I made. But once I realized that this was pointless I let go.

It’s ironic to think about this. Once I learned about the Undefined G I became free of the burden of trying to figure out who I was and who I was going to love and where I was going. The freedom that an Undefined G craves was there all along. While I was searching for these things I was trapped – trapped in the illusion that there was something wrong with my life and that it was up to me to fix it and fix myself.

What a twisted joke. And once I let go of the search for these things they all came to me, effortlessly and perfectly.

Love yourself,

Lynda